Happy News Again

I must say, fertility treatment is one of my favourite therapies. It is amazing to be part of something miraculous, like the creation and growth of new life. A few days ago, one of my lovely lady clients gave birth to adorable twins.

(pic: courtesy twinsworld.de)

Congratulations to the parents, and welcome to this world to the babies :)

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Finding the Light

Recently, I came across this text (in German) which I wanted to share with you. I find that there is so much truth in it, and whatever your religious preference is, I hope you like it, too.

Here goes:

“The light which you are looking for in your life is within you.

How can you find it? You can find it when you focus on the energy of love, on hope, on joy.

But what do you do so often? Most probably, you know the answer already.

You focus on problems, and there are truly plenty. Therefore, you think that time is never enough to solve your many problems. You are so entangled in these thoughts that you forget how to laugh, that you go to bed at night with a heavy head and hardly find any sleep. And in the morning, you get up and the first thing to greet you are your troubles.

You feel stuck in a hamster wheel. How come? Is life unfair? Do I perhaps want to test you by putting these obstacles in your way? I now tell you the truth: you have created all this by yourself.

“Are you saying I have created this whole chaos myself? No way! I am constantly reaching for peace. I do everything and all I can. I am there for everyone, but all they do is take advantage.”

These or similar are your words, perhaps. And yet I am telling you: you and no-one else is responsible for this chaos.

I am going to show you the way out, and I am sure you will be shocked, as you expected something completely different from your God.

The solution is: think of yourself more often. Become more selfish.

“What? God is saying I should be more selfish? That can’t be, as God wants me to be there for others, that I practice charity and love my brothers and sisters, and even perhaps to sacrifice myself for others. And that’s what I do!”

Well, you can do that, if you think it makes sense. But have you ever really helped anyone by doing so? Have you ever really received a thank you? Or did the cold breath of hell blow in your face? Were you kicked in the face for your help? Did you get thrown to the ground and were left there for a long time?

You know the answer; I know it, too, because I know your life. And I tell you: finally put an end to it, stop sacrificing yourself. And begin to love.

What is the difference? Love sets you free. Love only helps to such extent that it won’t snatch away personal initiative from others. Because if you do that, if you interfere with other people’s lives, you shall reap storm. Keep out of the lives of others!

Helping others doesn’t mean taking control of or to dictate another person’s life. But often that’s exactly what you do and call it charity. In truth, it’s the complete opposite and you can really cause a lot of damage. But perhaps you have already noticed it. Because a person, whose own decisions are blocked by you, will defend themselves. Always. Even if you actually only want their “best”. Let me tell you this: you are always likely to start wanting to help others, when actually you are pretty down yourself. Unfortunately, that’s not a good way to master life.

Once you start thinking about yourself more often, you won’t meet much approval for it at first. Many people will turn away from you. It is those who were using you; those who perhaps only needed a shoulder to cry on, who took their frustration out on you. You mustn’t be sad when you see the true face of a person. Perhaps, you will be shocked at first, but with time it will liberate you!

By doing so, you will gain more strength. Because I know that many of you constantly feel tired and exhausted. Well, how come? Do you know the answer? You wear yourself out for others. Your energy is constantly flowing to other people; that can never end well. Many of you like to talk about others who are not present. By doing so, you give away your energy and it is obvious how your energy is getting weaker and weaker. Keep your energy to yourself.

Take my words seriously, but go a bit easier on life, please.”

Unfortunately, I don't know who shared those words. So, thank you to Anon.

Find the light within you, see the beautiful things around you and care for Number 1 - yourself!