Yesterday, I received an e-mail from a client I saw about 2 years ago. Reading it, I felt honoured and grateful that I chose such a wonderful vocation.
That's what they wrote:
'Hi
Monica,
I spoke to you some time ago about a client of mine, as I am a support worker,
and told you how much I had appreciated your help on a visit to you in the
past (...)
I came to see you because I was feeling low and depressed, and we had one
therapy session. During the session you made me feel very relaxed, and
simply suggested to me that I imagine myself in a beautiful meadow. There
must have been something about it that got my own imagination going and I was
able to visualise a really inspiring story. I realised that my depression
was connected to my grief at losing my parents. I had a wonderful
inspiration and saw myself climbing out of a deep hold into a bright sunny
meadow. Then, strange as it may seem, the hole simply became a large dark
circle on the ground. I rolled it up like a mat, and put it in my backpack.
I walked on through the meadow, enjoying the bright sunshine and flowers, and
the birdsong. After I while I stopped and took off my backpack and sat
down for a rest. Then, remarkably, I took the mat out of my backpack,
shook it out and placed it on the ground. Magically, it grew and turned
into a lovely round swimming pool, full of warm, clear water. I got
in for a swim and relaxed in the sun feeling really contented.
I realised the meaning of the story. It meant that I didn't have to be
overwhelmed by my grief, but I didn't have to leave my feelings for my parents
behind either. Instead, I could carry them with me, and take out my
memories and simply bathe in the love that my parents gave me whenever I wanted
to.
It was a wonderful inspiration and came to me so naturally and
beautifully. It's like a joy that was inside me, and your therapy
released it in me. You didn't put ideas in my head or try to tell me what
to think - you simply managed to release what was already there in a really gentle
way.
That was a couple of years ago now, and though life continues to have its
ups and downs, like everybody's does, I remember that vision clearly and go
back to that meadow when I can to find peace and inspiration.
Thank you so much for giving me this beautiful experience. You really do
have a special gift.'